As we know that communication is like talking, or sharing information with the other person. Communication is a common occurrence in everyday life. You have to be willing to communicate if you want to give someone information. And someone has to be open to communication if you want to know information from that person.
To know clearly information can be obtained by means of good communication. Besides getting clear information, you can also keep the peace with the other person.
Well, that sounds little bit extreme, doesn't it? Keep the peace? Hahaha lmao. But, I'm serious about this! If you don't communicate well with the other person or your partner, what will happen? For example, you were angry or in a bad mood at the time, and then you unwittingly poured out all the distressing things in your heart to your partner with anger. What was your partner's reaction? Patient? You're lucky if she's patient. But if she doesn't? No doubt you would be shunned or hated by her.
Not only controlling emotions, but also you must present it clearly. The meaning of 'clearly' in this sentence is when you're talking with someone, please try not to be distracted by something. For example is:
1. You're talking with your friend in the phone, but the signal is bad.
2. Your mouth is full of food, but you want to keep talking.
3. You interrupted the unfinished conversation.
Here's the example of point 3:
Jennie: "hey lis, I'm in a bad mood today! 😔 You know what, I saw my ex together with my-"
Lisa: "Jennie, look! Which dress do you think it's great? Left or right?"
Jennie: "Both are good."
Lisa: "alright! Btw, um... can I borrow your money please? Because my salary hasn't been paid yet! 😔"
Jennie: ".......... Okay."
Lisa: "aww thank you baby! I have to go right now! You are my life saver! ❤️"
Jennie: "yeah, whatever."
In Jennie's heart be like "Lmao. I was gonna tell you about my story, but you interrupted me and walked away like that. You mean what? Hahaha. Surely you don't wanna hear my story, do you? 🙂"
And then there was a little bit contention between Lisa and Jennie~
"But that's not necessarily her fault. It could happened by an accident, right?"
Sure it can! Not everything happens by purposiveness. Maybe Lisa accidentally interrupted her friend because she didn't hear what Jennie said, right? But we don't know what the human heart is like, because everyone can lie and can pretend 🙂
There's a lot of damage that can happen if you keep miscommunicating, right? So please try to avoid the things I've described above! Not only that, you should avoid it so that misinformation doesn't happen! Perhaps this matter could still be handled if the information you presented not important enough and only one person knew it. But if the information is important and it becomes public, what will happen? You can imagine the impact that will have on your life. Really-really danger, bruh 🙂
"Then how can I fix it if I've already done all those things?"
Of course the first thing you should do is apologize! After you apologize, you must repeat the conversation clearly! No interruptions! If you're on calling? Send a message. If you're eating? Wait till your meal ends in your mouth. If your friend is on talking, wait until she finishes her conversation, give your opinion on what your friend is talking about, and if the topics already have done, you can talk about your part. Simple like that.
"But if the problem is misinformed people, how do I solve it?"
Do like what's on the top. Which is apologize and restate the correct information. But the difference is you have to be responsible! You must be prepared to face the consequences. Whether it's punished or ostracized.
